Humble Pie...Would You Like A Slice?

Dear Friend,

In every situation, no matter how difficult it may be remain humble. Don't all the temptation to lose your cool, eat you alive. Some people and circumstances can get the best of us at times, but it's our responsibility to...well take a chill pill. There are plenty of haters out there scheming against you and will lie on you in hopes you fall. Please don't give them the pleasure in which they seek. Unfortunately, some people only thrive from the destruction of another's image. Let them speak. If you are remaining true to yourself and those around you then they will not win. Beat them at their own game by turning the other cheek, and revealing them for the monsters they are. Life's too short for all of that drama!!

~Lady V

SNAKES

Dear Friend,

Beware of those sent to harm you. Beware of those who befriend you only to abuse you. Yes, beware of those who hope you lose. Nothing is more heartbreaking than when your so-called friends, become your worse enemies. People change but sometimes jealousy it's the leading factor in their sudden change. Don't let their ignorance deter you from going after what's yours. People will hate, that's just what they do best. Also, I hope you remember to take a look in the mirror and remind yourself not to hate on others as well. Misery loves company, so don't become that miserable person you normally despise. I understand that we all grow, but true friends grow together. True friends support and look out for one another, not envy each other's blessings. With friends like that who needs an enemy? I surely don't want venomous people in my life, that want to make me feel bad because of my success or because I refuse to stop. If you want to envy then take your "friendship" somewhere else...it's time to accept new applications.

~With Love,

Lady V

How Far Are You?

Dear Friend,

How far are you into your problems? I know this sounds very absurd, however I am serious!! We tend to encounter problems or issues in our lives, that cause us to waddle in the mud. Yes, sometimes I really would like to just stop moving and look at my mountains rather than climb them. Honestly, this would be the worse mistake ever!! Do you know of any successful man or woman in history who stopped moving forward because their mountain was in the way ? NOPE!! If you stop, then you lose. Hey a scared man can't lose, but he can't win either. Don't just observe your issues, but move through them. Soldiers don't win battles, but hiding in the trenches...they fight through it.

With Love,

~Lady V

Senseless

Dear Friend,

I am learning the hard way that sometimes you really should tell yourself to sit down. By this I mean, you can't always put your wants, desires, or wishes before others. As nice as it sounds, we always say that we are looking out for the best interests of all the parties involved. However, it's a lie. Mostly, we are just trying to get our way. We believe that we are always right and would rather be told lies than face reality. Truthfully admit to yourself that all of the actions you take aren't in the best interest of anyone other than you. We have learned from a young age, that it's a dog eat dog society thus every man for himself. Am I lying? Rather I want to or not, I have to put my loud mouth schemes on the back burner. Otherwise, I could independently destroy the most important relationships in my life. That's a harsh reality we all have to face one day.

~Lady V

Count It All Joy

Dear Friend,

Life can be a headache sometimes!! According to the National Health Interview Survey, around 75% of Americans experience some amount of stress every two weeks. Basically everyone you know is stressed out! Right now saying, that's life, is not a good enough excuse. We are all adults who understand circumstances occur that aren't always in our best interest. However, we need to learn how to calm down. Everything isn't the end of the world as it seems. I have to tell myself this on a daily basis. Yes, there is cause to stress, but stressing too much can take away any sense of stability or peace you may have. Get a grip on yourself, and learn to breathe.

~With Love, Lady